Managing sleep when your baby or toddler is sick

Sick baby with fever asleep, shows thermometer.

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This blog is not intended to offer medical advice.

When your little one is sick, you need to do whatever you can to make your child comfortable. Sometimes the best parenting decision for the moment will conflict with optimal sleep habits and that's ok. This blog will guide you through how to manage such difficult times.

The Science

The average child under age 2 will get sick 6 times per year! Children in daycare are exposed to more viruses, leading to a potential for even more frequent illness. Just like for adults, cold and flu symptoms can lead to disruptive sleep that isn't very restorative.

A child who is normally a good sleeper may need a considerable amount of help falling asleep and staying asleep while sick and this can lead to new sleep associations. Even a mild illness can cause frequent night waking due to congestion, coughing, and sore throat. During this difficult time, you may need to spend additional time with your little one holding, rocking, or even offering extra feedings to get through the night. While comforting your child during this time is absolutely appropriate, your child may re-develop a sleep association as a result of your extra comforts. As a reminder, a sleep association is simply the series of experiences or tools that your baby needs to fall asleep. A sleep association could be your child’s crib, rocking, bouncing, feeding, going for a walk in a carrier or stroller, a pacifier, or any combination of those or other things. If your child's sleep doesn't naturally return to normal after s/he is feeling better, then this blog will help you get sleep back on track.

How do you manage sleep during illness?

Determine why your child is having trouble sleeping

If your child has a fever, then it will be obvious that an acute illness is the source of your little one's discomfort. However, sometimes a child will experience sleep disruption due to chronic conditions like reflux or food sensitivities that can be difficult to distinguish from short-term sickness. This article reviews common sleep disruptors and how to identify them. It's important to make sure you are solving the right problem and responding in an appropriate manner for the most stable sleep outcomes in the long run.

Develop a care plan with your pediatrician

If you can make your child comfortable during sleep, then you will not need to intervene as much and will be less likely to create new sleep associations. A mild cold or sniffles probably won't require a visit to your pediatrician's office, but that doesn't mean that your child won't be uncomfortable. A sore throat, congestion, or cough can be quite disruptive to sleep, even if no fever is present. Talk with your pediatrician about whether it is appropriate to provide your child with acetaminophen, ibuprofen, or different medication to alleviate discomfort during sleep. This decision will be based on your child's age, history, and the severity of his/her symptoms.

Optimize your child's sleep environment

As always, your child's room should be cool, dark, and quiet for optimal sleep. Sometimes a child can hang onto a chronic cough due to dry winter air after other symptoms have subsided. Consider adding a cool-mist humidifier to your child's room to help minimize coughing. If you have a toddler or preschool-aged child, keep tissues and a spill-proof water bottle on a nightstand near your child's bed. If your child's symptoms are severe, consider temporarily sleeping in your little one's room so that you can be nearby rather than bringing your child into your room. If your child's sleep environment stays constant, then it will be easier to get back on track once your child is well again.

What should you do at bedtime when your child is sick?

The more you can keep your child's sleep habits stable, the easier it will be to get sleep back to normal when your child is well. Follow the flow chart below to see if you can maintain your child's sleep habits by offering a little extra comfort. If your child is uncomfortable and cranky, then it's ok to hold/rock your child to sleep. As noted in the chart, you might need to hold your child for longer than usual before transferring your little one to his/her bed.

Chart showing steps to take when trying to get sick baby to sleep.

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